www.hs2000talk.com
i visited a few times it doesnt seem like the site is hit that much another place i have been able to get XD info from owners is www.glocktalk.com check out there 40cal
ktforum or do a search, nice choice

I would like to point out that most sidearms higher than the $300 range are reliable. What makes them unreliable is the type of ammunition fired from them. It's either a feed problem or laod is too light and won't kick a slide back all the way. People who don't reload will find this out.

I had my wife shoot both a 40 cal.and 9mm Glock to see which she liked the best.She preferred the 9 mm so thats what I got her.We both have CCW's.As far as he gun choice any already suggested would be good.I like'm all.:)

My brother in law bought and shoots a XD-9mm I helped him pick it out. It shoots great and reliablly I think it would be a great choice also. You can also get them for less than $500.