Thanks everyone, so far.
Maybe the 9 is really better for my needs. In answer to one question, I will probably carry less than 50% of the time. Mainly do to my work doesn't allow it. Although I have often thought that after getting a CCW, perhaps carrying a small 380 may still happen there. ANother thing I didn't mention is I would also like my wife to learn to shoot this pistol, so again the 9 may be a better choice. As for a wheel gun, really more interested in the pistol at this time, but never rule something out down the road.
