Missing Fingers and Automatic Handguns.

[PJgunner]

Not sure if this will be any help, but, most 9mm semi autos these days seem to of the double action variety. They seem to have a long reach to the trigger, even with the hammer back. So what i think is needed here is a single action semi like a colt 1911 or 1911A1. The A1's usally come with a shorter trigger and it would not be a big deal to put a short trigger on the 1911 style. Several of the companies that make 1911 style handguns also make them in 9MM, .38 Super and probably 40 S&W as well.
I have small hands myself, and find the double action semis to be a bit of a handful. You might try and find either a Beretta Brigadier or it's clone the Egyptian Helwan. They are in 9MM and are quite comfortable in my small hands. The big problem will be finding one of those. Try the gun shows.
Paul B.